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20 June 2026

The Destination

Recently, I was listening to one of the blessings God has given our generation. She hosts a show that appears to be a regular show on the surface, but is clearly ministry. During the conversation, she…

24 May 2026

Staying True to Yourself

Life happens in seasons. There’s a time to work and a time to recover from work. During seasons of recovery, one of the most important things we can do is reflect — how did we get here? What did we do…

13 July 2025

The Power of Journaling: More Than Just Words on a Page

The power of journaling honestly can’t be overemphasized. From writing down thoughts, goals, prayers, to gratitude lists and even little lessons from each day—journaling creates a space that’s deeply…

6 July 2025

“Boundaries: Not Walls, Just Wisdom”

Last week, we talked about Friendship—how meaningful and sometimes messy it can be. And as I was thinking about what to write this week, my heart kept circling back to one word: Boundaries. It felt li…

29 June 2025

Feasting on Friendship — Lessons I’m Still Learning

Friendship is one of life’s most beautiful gifts — yet also one of the most misunderstood. We talk a lot about love, family, and relationships, but sometimes we forget how powerful and necessary real,…

22 June 2025

Let’s Talk Fashion: It’s Bigger Than You Think

Fashion. When it comes to outfits, just that one word can trigger a hundred different thoughts depending on who you are. For some people, fashion is about luxury, runways, designer tags, and magazine…

15 June 2025

YESTERDAY: A Blessing or a Burden?

Yesterday was really good for me. I had bread in the morning, ate rice later in the day, and also enjoyed some African pear. I went for rehearsal too, which always lifts my mood. Oh, and it rained — t…

1 June 2025

Broken Hallelujah Movie Review

If there’s anything Broken Hallelujah reminded me of, it’s this: God is always present. In the highs, in the lows—He never leaves us. No matter the season of life, His faithfulness never fails. Before…

25 May 2025

The Power of Association: Who You Walk With Matters

Have you ever noticed how you start picking up the habits, expressions, and even perspectives of those you spend the most time with? That’s the silent but strong power of association. As human beings,…

18 May 2025

Slangs and Trends: A Trip Down Memory Lane

✨ Read time: 3 minutes Growing up, I watched slangs come and go like seasons—they trend quickly, and all of a sudden, they are gone. I may not remember them all, but a few still make me smile when I t…

11 May 2025

🌱 A New Beginning

✨ Estimated read time: 3 minutes If there’s one thing that stays the same while we’re here on earth, it’s this—things will always change. I know you’ve probably heard that a million times, but honestl…